Get All That Shit Out Of Your Head Or: Why Every Day Of Your Life Is A Different Coffee Shop – Tara Samuel

By Tara Samuel

Every day of your life is a different coffee shop.
Just go with me on this for a minute. (Read: The length of this article.)
Think of every single day of your life as a different coffee shop. – And if you don’t drink coffee, consider each day a new gem of a restaurant. Order whatever you want. For now, we’re talking coffee shops.

“What the hell is she talking about?” you are thinking. Now come on. Open up your brain, and play with me. Imagine that each day you wake up – the moment you wake up – you look around and SEE a new and funky place you’ve never seen. Do it. And it’s cozy, or it’s weird, or it’s corporate, or it’s somewhere where you don’t speak the language. Yup – look at that book you haven’t finished – the one next to your bed – or better – look at all of those receipts you haven’t yet sorted – and think to yourself: “I don’t have to worry about that stuff; I don’t speak the language!” – Okay arguably that is not good advice – but for now – run with me on the whole ‘everything around you is new’ feeling. Humor me – and feel the curiosity – and the quiet chuckles to yourself – that come with looking at new surroundings, every single day.

Leave your house each day and think to yourself: “I am in a new coffee shop! A new building – or a new courtyard that I’ve never seen – with terrible décor! Who designed this place?!” Every day, look around, and realize to yourself “ I am in a lunatic coffee shop that defies all coffee shops!” Some days are old libraries you love for their dust and torn upholsteries – the mess is nostalgic; other days you adore, for their huge leather chairs and fireplaces; some afternoons you enjoy crisp sunshine, 20-foot ceilings, mirrored walls and marble floors; certain mornings are rainy, and you run your fingers along cold colored tiles of wrought iron tables. You are savoring these details, every single day.

Every single new day has its own particular clientele – shadowy people you get to stare at; sexy, enticing socialites; even Naked People. Yes indeed. Today you are in a nudist café. You may decide to come back to this particular café.

Some of your days have their own unique soundtrack – Tuesdays tend to play instrumental jazz; Wednesdays play musak that alternately cracks you up or oddly impresses you – orchestral covers of the Bee Gees; bossa nova versions of Cher; Fridays are often tuned to the satellite Sinatra channel, mischievously encouraging you to do it Your Way. There is often a swagger in your step this day. On other days when you can time travel, you visit this coffee shop again. – This, or the nudist café. Or you toss out all of these coffee shops and decide to see new ones…

Every day – when you wake up in this new shop you’re in, first thing: Take a huff. Sniff the air. Breathe in the new space. Anything different today? Is there a floral scent? Baking nearby? Fire? City smog that take on a new quality of seduction because YOU’RE IN A COFFEE SHOP IN BERLIN? Each day, imagine you’re somewhere you’ve never been, and look at your surroundings as though they are foreign, and SO ROMANTIC. Was this coffee shop built in Turkey? Are you in Morocco? Rwanda? Outer space? Is today an anti-gravity day? Challenging to walk today, but how cool is this?!

What details about today are you noticing, that have never before caught your attention? Is it the way the drapes hang in this particular French Café? Is it the sounds of African birds, chatting away to each other? Is the smell of the roasting beans at a late night campfire in Northern Canada? You’re in a late night outdoor café – Christmas lights everywhere – in the Canadian Arctic! Fantastic.

Now. “What the hell is her point?” you are asking.
Seek no further. Sit up and listen. Or lie back and enjoy your Persian hammock.

You are here on this planet to make something. Each and every one of you. Without exception. You know this. Don’t even try to argue with me on this point. Your job on this planet is to make something. You are here to make a song, make a sculpture, make a bridge, make a gourmet meal, make a gown, make a cabinet, make a movie soundtrack, make a character come to life, make a team of people that will create a breathtaking concert / opera / choreographed event / hike / commune / mural / choral group / tapestry / banquet / cinematic adventure.

And the very way to do this, is to stop doing all of that wondering you’re doing – quit doing that shit – and be in awe of what’s around you right now. Be in awe of everything.

Decide that every single day, you are in a new coffee shop – or a new city – or a new dimension – and get excited.
Be in awe of every day, in just the same way that you would admire the desert sky, the grand canyon, the pyramids, or Tara Samuel.
YES! The MOMENT you wake up – or heck – throughout your dreams as well – be amazed. Be amazed in your own bedroom, as though you were gazing at Planet Earth from your own personal floating space pod. That’s some sight, eh?

And that’s it.

That’s all you need to do in this life. Get excited about this very moment – this moment right now this second – stop thinking about all that shit in your head – and go make your thing. Go Make Your Thing!!
So exciting.

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by Tara Samuel, 2/20/11

Bio: Tara is a proud Canuck actor; born in Taiwan but raised in downtown Toronto on a steady diet of professional theatre. She was classically-trained at the renowned George Brown Theatre School -John Bannerman Award. Internationally, Tara is beloved as the character “Tara Williams” on the long-running t.v. series “Sue Thomas: F.B.Eye”, currently airing on the Gospel Music Channel and the American Life Network. Tara has since moved into producing and starring in films. She founded Busterhouse Productions with Matt Flugger, lead singer of The Black Currents -who she is lucky enough to have married. FIND –written & directed by Tara, screened at festivals around the world and was nominated for ‘Best Narrative Short’ at the Oscar-qualifying Austin Film Festival. March 2011 FIND was published in Vol.21 of the Chicago Journal Of Short Film. 2011/2012 Tara is developing and producing a slate of 6 feature films with celebrated directors Sam Svibleman, Andrew Pinon, Ishai Setton, Deborah LaVine and Paula Tiberius. Spring 2011 will see the completion of the 1st: “Ruby Booby“, written and directed by critically-acclaimed writer Jon Rannells, starring Tara as “Ruby”.
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  • http://www.howigotlost.com Joe Leonard

    Yes yes yes.

  • http://www.annasimonescott.com Anna Simone Scott

    Please use this one with correct spelling….ok it’s early. I love this. Tara you’re a breath of fire!….. So making stuff….that’s what happened last night. I was so in the middle of creating a split pea soup I forgot to show up to We Make Movies meeting! Anna

  • Karen

    Thank you, Tara! My eclectic, sunny Valley coffee shop filled with office supplies, hockey collectibles, and Star Wars stuff IS all I need to get me excited about creating! Very much appreciate the way you framed a marvelous way we may view our surroundings and our power within them.

  • http://twitter.com/allieacts Allie Costa

    I try to treat every day as a new chance, a fresh start, a wonderful day.

    As Anne Shirley (through L.M. Montgomery) said:

    “Marilla, isn’t it nice to think that tomorrow is a new day with no mistakes in it yet?”

  • http://www.facebook.com/KristopherFitzgerald Kris Fitzgerald

    Every moment is an opportunity!  Such great advice and it still stands true nearly a year later.  It reminds me that every interaction is a source of inspiration for character development, dialog, motivation or that hard to nail down plot point.  The world is a stage, and we are merely the writers, directors, producers and players.  Onward and thanks for such a great article Tara.

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